Dating someone who is agnostic

And as pnayplayr says there will be challenges, but they aren't necessarily un-overcomeable. Not only is my relationship interfaith, we were also long-distance for 3 years - as such very little patience in either category when people say 'that can't last'. It can, if the people in it want it to and work at it. Would that explain the high divorce rate? How many people should one have sex with well i guess that is an individual choice I mean at 17 you don't know what you fully want , what fully fullfills you and want will turn you on down the road In addition to the Bible talking about the whole "unequally yoked" thing it's just good common sense.

Let me put it this way. A persons core beliefs about GOD, faith and the afterlife are a pretty big deal. If two people are trying to build a life together and they're miles apart on such an important issue, don't you think that'll cause problems. While couples don't have to agree on everything it sure helps to be in the same ball park on the big stuff. She said that they had a lot in common. She seems to be questioning some things about her faith.

He is questioning the whole idea of God. I think that they have a lot to talk about and a good opportunity to learn from each other and grow in their understanding and appreciation. No two people are going to think and believe exactly alike. I find two people who are questioning and searching much more apt to find a common ground, than when one of the couple knows all the answers. If her friend was anti-religion or anti-church, I would think differently.

Chansen - I can't see an agnostic or an atheist being happy in a long term relationship with somebody who continually told him that he was going to burn in hell for his unbelief or taking it upon her shoulders to turn him from his evil ways and save him. But two people respecting each others opinions and searching for common ground - yes, I think it could work.

I must say, I've found discussion interesting so far. It's obvious some of you have very I do agree with Charles T, in that if you're dating someone, if you do not see any sort of future with that person, then there isn't much point to the relationship unless it's been determined it will be a short term fling And I do think those short romances can teach us a lot about ourselves and we want look for That being said, it doesn't mean that you have to think you will actually marry every single boyfriend you have, only that as long as the potential is there, it is still worth your time and energy.

I do disagree with everyone who says sex should be left for marriage. I agree with jesouhaite in relation to divorce. I do think that sex does play a role sometimes bigger, sometimes smaller in a relationship's success and failure. I don't think some people realize the impact that sexual compatibility plays in a healthy relationship.

If your libidos don't match up, that can lead to frustration in the bedroom which will spill into other aspects of your relationship A healthy and compatible sex life is as important as emotional intimacy and having similar morals and beliefs. I am by no means recommending you go and have sex with your boyfriend right now Physical love is another way to express yourself to each other.

What's important is that you have discussed it before and are clear on boundaries of what you're comfortable doing, as well as safety measures to take i. Also, remember if you start something and become uncomfortable, you can stop.

If your partner tries to say "well you said If you cannot talk with your partner about sex, then you are not ready to have sex, wether you're 17 or 20 or Also keep in mind, sex is not just intercourse, there are many different ways and kinds, always play safe. We're all offering our opinions on this matter, none of us are a higher power, to tell you what to do and how to do, then your own spirit.

I encourage you to pray, journal, meditate whatever you find helpful and do what feels right to you. And keep in mind, sometimes what feels right is not the easy thing to do.

But like others before me have suggested, I too recommend that you keep yourself safe and don't put yourself in unnecessary danger. Your parents and your relationship with your parents should also be considered. If they disagreed with your marriage partner would they cut you off from their lives? If this would happen could you deal with the loss of your relationship with your parents? Many parents do come around once their child is married but what if they never do - your feelings would depend on your relationship with your parents and what it means to you, as this could be a source of unhappiness in the future But it is your life to live, and you should follow whatever path you believe will make you happy.

I tried talking to my mother about my boyfriend once, not too far into the relationship. She already knew he was my friend and I asked her if it would be okay for me to go to a formal dinner for my graduating year with him. It didn't go very well at all I ended up telling her I wouldn't go with him, but I did. I felt terrible for lying. Ever since shes been paranoid about if I'm going anywhere, asking who will be there, and if he's coming. She never told my father, who is even more close-minded than she is.

I feel like I am not comfortable letting them know about us until after I've moved out and am independent As for sex, we've talked and he completely understands that I've chosen to be abstinent. I believe it's wise to wait until marriage, and even if I didn't, I have a medication that required me to sign a release saying i wouldn't have sex until i was off the medication,.

Dawn I'm so sorry for things being like they are. I do have trepidation over the fact that you're considering dating someone outside your faith but while I would advice caution and reluctance it should be a decision that as someone on the cusp of adulthood you should make, you should not be bullied into it.

While I tend to agree with your parents positions I find their methods detestable. You aren't a child and you'll be fully adult soon enough, needing to make your own decisions. That should be respected. I wish you the best regardless of what decision you make and I hope you keep us all informed.

Best wishes. Big deal. You tell the minister that you want to convert, then after the wedding, they never see you again. Millions of people have done that over the years. In my case, I never suggested to the minister that I believed, or would convert. My wife's family had given so much money to the Anglican church over the years, they would have married us if I had a pentagram carved into my forehead.

There are lots of ways for those of differing faiths to get married. The important point is, faith is not the primary definition of a person. Just finding someone you want to spend lunch with is difficult enough.

If you find someone you really want to spend the rest of your life with, religion shouldn't prevent that. If you let religion get in the way of a good thing, then I suggest religion isn't making you a better person, and perhaps apostasy is right for you.

If there is a statement on WC that should bring about a facepalm, it was this one, or anything written by blackbelt. I have to agree with others' comments on the likelyhood of it being a permanent relationship. But to come back to the original question: "Should you date this guy? I think you might have one or two extra questions to ask yourself, notably with regards to your beliefs and his.

Or will you insist on devout church-going kids? I would add that as a practicing Christian, I would feel more comfortable with a spouse that is a real agnostic or atheist, or with a practicing Muslim or Buddist than I feel with a so-called Christian-by-name. Enlarge Text A A A.

Join Now. I'm looking for some advice from practicing Christians. So I want to know She knows He is almighty and powerful. She believes. Now, I am dating a Christian. I never saw it coming. I have known him since I was a child. We have gone to the same church all our lives; we went to Sunday School and confirmation together—we even stood next to each other during our Confirmation questioning!

God works in mysterious ways, but something great always comes from His work. After dating a Lutheran man, I can say how much I value a Christian relationship. Our values are very similar and, more important, we put God first. I am thankful that I can praise the Lord with a man who understands and shares those beliefs with me. My mother was right all along. Although the decades may come and go, students, parents, and teachers can take peace knowing a relationship with God is eternal and not Prophets, priests, kings, and more are all inspired by the work of Before having a faith conversation, it's important to prepare what you will say by developing an understanding of Islam with Dr.

In this excerpt from Redeeming Technology, the potential dangers of pride and distraction in social media are discussed through a Christian Do you struggle to love people who are different from you? Marriage is intended to be a relationship of oneness between two people Genesis ,24 - two people who are intimate companions, complementing each other and encouraging each other as they work together toward the same goal. When a Christian marries an agnostic, or anyone of non-Christian belief for that matter, this unity of purpose and direction is not possible.

It is being unequally yoked 2 Corinthians and can even be the cause for the Christian to fall away 2 Peter So many compromises would have to be made in all priorities, like how you spend your time, money and energy. Raising children would be especially difficult because whose world view would you choose and would the other person support it?

For a couple to be growing in the same direction, they need to have their foundations the same. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment.

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